Now I remember why I’m so glad to be off the dating scene. Rejection hurts. A lot.
I’m sure I’m not the only one to equate the search for an agent to the search for Mr. Right — but it’s an apt comparison.
You try to make a good impression on your dream man/agent. If — against all odds — a connection is made, you hope he feels the same spark you do. If not? The big “R.”
Rejection. You might feel worthless. You probably question your appeal … your talents as a writer.
I ought to know, having just received two agent rejections in two days. (Being a Golden Heart ® finalist makes for much speedier replies.)
At least they weren’t all negative: Each one featured good with the bad. They both had an element of “I like you but …”
The bottom line? “Beauty and the Ballplayer” wasn’t quite right for either of them. The hero and heroine didn’t speak to them. (Whether that’s an inherent flaw in the MS is up for debate. I might have some revising to do.)
In the meantime, I’ll continue the search for Dream Agent. Somewhere, out there, is my perfect match … the agent who believes in my work as much as I do.
We’ve all been there, Arlene, and it hurts. But with your talent, I’m sure you’ll find an agent whose enthusiastic about your work. Good luck with those submissions!
Thanks! That’s the goal: To find my perfect agent match. I’m not giving up any time soon.
Sorry about the rejections, Arlene, but don’t give up. You’re getting closer each time, and the GH is a huge milestone.
Boo for rejections! Your DA is out there, though. You don’t want someone who only likes your work – you want someone who loves it as much as you do.
Good point. I’ll have to remember that.